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I have a boyfriend that's 18 who turns 19 in August.And I'm 16 and I turn 17 in October.Would it work out if I was going in Highschool and he went to college in the area.Or do you think he would get tired of me and get someone better who's in college or whatever.Or even I would find someone in highschool.I just want some opinions if you don't mind. (link)
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Sometimes it works. More often, it doesn't.
You'll be in different places. He'll be meeting new people and learning new things, finding new freedom, and making the final transition into adulthood. It's not a matter of his getting "tired" of you, just a matter of change in his life that can lead to further change in the way he feels about your relationship.
I suggest that the two of you make it clear to each other that you will deal with the matter honestly and that if he feels the relationship with you is holding him back in some way, he needs to tell you BEFORE it reaches the point where he acts upon that. Likewise, if you feel that he's growing distant, tell him before you start growing bitter and resentful. And if either of you finds someone else, try to understand that sometimes that happens and that neither of you wants to be someone that the other feels "stuck with".
Communication is key in any relationship, and particularly in yours, considering how it's going to change in the coming year. If you "talked for months" before making it official, you probably already understand that, and that will be a point in your favor.
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Rating: 5
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Thanks hun! :] We'll see what happens.Hopefully we'll work it out.
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