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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]

Two of my cousins have lost their virginity. I haven't lost it, and I'll be honest with you - I'm only thirteen! Anyways, I'll tell you both of their stories.
Cousin #1
She had a boyfriend, she was dating him for probably about a year in a half to two years, and I believe she was head over heels for him and really believed in him. She didn't get pregnant, but if she did then chances are - he would've left her at the time. They didn't continue to have sex, although I'm guessing they wanted to. But he just broke up with her today, he said there was another girl. OUCH! That's terrible. She's 15 - almost 16 and had been with him since age 13. He was her first boyfriend, but his family disliked her and he threw a knife at his mother, he was a pretty violent kid. I don't feel she regrets it, although I haven't talked with her yet about it, because if she loved him -- it was going to happen anyway. What is supposed to happen will happen. That's just God's way.
Cousin #2
She was certainly of age, almost 30 now I believe. She doesn't regret it at all because she did it with someone she loved and he never left her, in fact now they're engaged and getting married soon. I know, these stories sound so coincidental but it's true. She got pregnant and they had a baby. So it just goes to show you there are so many possibilities and so many stories to take part in -- to tell others. But whatever they felt (neither regret it as far as I know) doesn't necessarily mean you'll feel the same way. So do it with someone you care about, when you're ready, and when you're married. Maybe you don't have the same beliefs as I do, but if you're supposed to have sex with him, you will. Doesn't matter when. Just think about it.
Much Luck.

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