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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle

"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."

I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.

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ok so this is so confusing and so hard i'm a 15 year old female who is madly in love with my boyfriend of 1 year his name is zach and i love him to death...but he does the stupidest shit like for example he's got arrested 3 TIMES this year and it hurts i can take it anymore and the first to time's it had to do with drugs. the third time it was because he was in a stolen car with my BROTHER and my bff HANGING AND KISSING HER!!!!!!!!! then my ex boyfriend chris is now wanting to get back with me and i like him yeah but when he broke up wit me he said he was in love with this girl melissa and now he's saying he's sorry and he loves me but i don't want to take him back he hurt me...then i'm a new student at this school in eastern washington where i'm minority because it's mainly mexicans and indians and i don't have a problem with it but it's hard when your new and everyone makes fun of you because your white and you have a punk hair cut but there is this one guy leriamy he's so cut and i really like him i've been going to school not even a month but i do like him and his friends have all told me he likes me and wants to go out with me but he doesn't want to ask me out and i'm like ok but then i see him flirt with his ex girlfriend mayra who is like my closet friend here so i don't want to ruin that but she says she doesn't care if i go out with him because she doesn't like him. and i would it's just people keep on making jokes bout us and it's really starting to get me pissed off and he doesn't say anything and when people say that we are going out he doesn't correct them i'm so confused it's not fair gosh i hate being put in this situation it's not fair to me or them i just need HELP picking one or should i go single again...

any advice would help thanks a bunch

Okay, the boyfriend you have now, sucks. I mean, hes getting arrested? and twice for drugs? ahh, thats not someone you wanna be involed with, because i was watching cops this one time [haha] and this girls boyfriend had drugs in the car, and even though she didnt know, she got introuble too. so, you most likely don't want that to happen to you, where you get introuble and you didnt do anything, yano? and then wait, was your boyfriend kissing your bff? [i couldn't tell if you were saying your boyfriend was or your brother] but if it was your boyfriend, then, omg get rid of him. i mean, ive known kids who have been like drug dealers, and i like loved them to death. and i dated this one, the ones were just friends.. and he was fine and stuff, as long as he didnt get me involved with it, i didnt care. but, if he ever ever ever would have cheated on me, he would have tottaly been done. i mean, i don't know about you, but i wanna be number one, when im dating a guy. yano? so basically, get rid of him. he sounds like he sucks.

then as for your ex-boyfriend, he doesnt sound like anything special either. he doesn't seem like he knows his true feelings right now. i'd give him some space.

and then that other kid that you just met, he doesnt seem like he knows what he wants to much either, because if he really really really liked you, hed get the courage to ask you out.

well thats my opinion on that stuff, and what i think you should do, is go single. but if you really really dont wanna do that. take those 3 guys, and put there names on seperate sheets of paper, and put there pros and cons. whoever has the best qualities, is the person you should go out with. (:

i hope everything works out for the best

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(Rating: 5) thanks for your advice i'm no longer with my boyfriend or any of the other guys i'm single and loving it thanks you helped out a lot!!!! :D
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