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I'm curious about something. Well being a girl I know that we like to talk to our female friends about guys we like. So is it the same for guys? Do they talk to their close male friends about girls they like? The reason I"m asking is because they is a guy from work who has a crush on me (who I like back). Well in the last couple of shifts I've noticed that this other guy (who is friends with him) has been staring at me and then looking away when I look at him and his been being alot nicer to me then normal. So I think they have been talking about me. DO you think I'm right? (link)
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Definitely, guys talk to their friends about girls. But the conversations they have aren't generally very deep. Usually, guys talk about girls in terms of how physically attractive they are, how much they want to have sex with them, and how they would look naked; very rarely might you hear a guy speak to his friend about how much he enjoys talking to a girl, how fascinating it is just to spend time with her, and how he can imagine that they might really have a chance at a meaningful relationship.
Not that guys don't think about the deeper things - they just don't talk to their buddies about them. We men tend to be a little more private about those thoughts and feelings.
One of the side effects of guys talking to each other about the girls they like is that sometimes, one of them starts taking notice in a given girl that he might not have paid attention to before. When he's looking at you, he's probably thinking something like, "Wow, she DOES have nice legs. I wonder why I never saw that?"
You haven't actually asked for it, but since this is an advice website, I'm going to offer some unsolicited advice. I suggest you make a move on the guy who has a crush on you, before you have the makings of a triangle on your hand. You really don't want two guys who are friends pursuing you at your workplace; things could get ugly. It might be best all around if you locked in with one of them before the other gets too many ideas.
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Rating: 5
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Thankyou for your advice. I've decided that I don't like either of these guys but thankyou anyways!
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