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The boy I talk to only came over my house once and we only just talk on the phone. A few things that he do that I don't like is when he see me he just say hi or not and that would be it for the whole day until he calls me after school. But another thing is that all his friends call me his name when they see me and they know we talk and everybody in school know. But why is it that he don't act like he want to be around when all his friends stop and talk to me and always hang around me. Everynight when we talk he acts like he cares so much and like I never ask him to come over or to go out. I hate when it seems like he just want to hang out with his friends out of school, just ride dirt bikes and whatever else he be doing. When I asked him why he treat me this way he said, "That's because I really like you". I don't understand why he treats me this way like I'm not even there but just walking right by me. But I realized he will want to be around and want to talk to me when all his friends around. So what why do he act this way and what should I do?
Well this could mean one of two things. Either he is embarassed to show everyone he really likes you for fear of rejection by his peers, or he is just using you. Now usually this means he is just using you. This happened to a friend of mine. She loved this guy to death. He was a Senior at the time and she was a sophomore. He would totally not talk to her in school or around his friends, but after school he would hang out with her and talk with her non-stop. This continued for a month and then they ended up having sex. He later completely stopped talking to her and ignored her. She was so hurt and learned later that he was always talking bad about her to his friends, and his friends, who always acted nice to her, would talk bad about her too. So she got over him and moved on. And turns out a year later he tried to get her back, but she was already over him and had the strength to move on. In my opinion, kick him to the curb. If he really liked you he wouldnt be afraid to be seen talking to you in public with his friends and peers around. That shows he is secretive, manipulative, and up to something. And you dont deserve to be treated like that!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so so much yours be the best response yet and yeah I'm in the 12th and him in the 10th but it's like everybody knows we talk even teachers and principals so why act so distance but I realized he started acting that way when he found out I used to mess with a few boys up our school (but i never had sex with them or him) so i'm really not worried about he because I'm taking the love of my young life to the prom and i'm about to go to college so what can he do for me besides give me money. So I really loved your answer and I will make sure I always come to you for advice and if so can you follow up on my question because I added so more information. But yes everbody calls me his nickname which he is known by and everything.