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wow this is the closest thing i've ever written to a journal haha sry its mad long..please help

Ok to begin with I am 17/m and there is a freshman girl I have liked since arouund christmas and um basically i cant tell if she likes me or not..at first i thought she did so i told my friends until one dumbass friend went and told her and since then she hasnt said anything on the subject and im too shy to ask her and the only place i see her is in drama class or right before school ends if she passes by my locker to go to her bus..

i have been making fun of her in class since the beginning of this year (2007) cause..i dunno im kinda scared i guess haha i've tried to talk to her before and she will usually just give me a look and say "hi" and i'll say "whats up" and she dosnt respond ..and sometimes she just ignores me..im thinking maybe she's a little mad cause i make fun of her almost every day. she says she doesnt care but i dunno..girls say they dont care for a lot of things :P

she's kind of shy in class but sometimes when i pass her in the hallways she'll be yelling her ass off and she has 231 friends on myspace (none are bands i checked) and after school she's always on her cellphone..and she plays 3 sports and also she's REALLY smart..like seriously she got all a's on her midterm, has a 101 average in our drama class, and she's like in all honors classes..insane

girls are so confusing haha
so i dunno..i guess my question is what is she thinking..does she like me? because i know that i can talk to her if i know she likes me but i dont want to embarass myself because ive embarassed myself more than once for this girl..i am seriously head over heels for this girl

thanks for reading

ohkay well... i know you may seemed nevous and didn`t really know how to respond to being in the same room with her BUT making fun of a girl is not a good way of flirting. too some, maybe most it`s a turn-off.

and that`s where you are wrong. girls do care about alot of things. they have feelings just as well as you do.

maybe you should talk to her a little without even thinking about that question. make a friendship with her. that`s the best way to start a relationship.

i have feeling this lil lady is playing hard to get.

but i have a question myself. why is it that you sed on the orginal that you didn`t talk to her and on the additional you sed you talked? i don`t get it.

i think she likes you but don`t know how to show it.

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(Rating: 4) oh, see we used to talk like twice a week before the whole myspace thing (it was really bad) and then after that it stopped. sorry i wasnt clear..thanks

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