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ok well im 15/f and my ex bf is 16. WE broke up before my birthday which was april 11th. He called me to wish me a happy birthday and ever since then we have been talking. He asked me what would i say if i we went back out. I told him i would think about it. Well one of his best friends said that lately he has been doing drugs for the past month and stuff. I asked him about it and he said that he does do drugs now and he sells it now too. Well thats just not cool to me but i love him alot i mean hes the one who broke up with me i didnt want to lose him. I dont know wat to do i want to go back out with him but im not sure if thats a good idea?!? i need help thinking of the pros and cons of me going out with him if hes going to do this. Im not sure why he does this i mean he has money he doenst need any im the one that doesnt have hardly any money ever! i just want him to stop doing that shit but he told me that he wasnt and he told me that i shouldnt care because i do that shit too but i dont i told him i dont and i never will. I need HELp! please help me anyone i would like to hear alot of people's opinions and ideas. thanks :]
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If you go out with him, keep the following things in mind:
(1) He's a criminal. Selling drugs is illegal. If he's ever caught, you will be placed under suspicion, and it's even possible that "evidence" may be found on you - a stash that he left in your room when you weren't looking, for instance.
(2) Drugs alter the mind, and depending on what kinds of drugs he is using, they may alter it enough so as to render him untrustworthy and incapable of making good decisions. This is not a quality you want in a boyfriend.
(3) He apparently thinks you're into the drug scene too. You've told him you're not, but he may try to change your mind on that one, either by persuasion or by tricking you into taking his drugs. Either way, bad news.
(4) Drug users hang out with other drug users. Even if you feel you can trust him, does it give you a good feeling knowing that you'll find yourself frequently surrounded by people on drugs? For that matter, do you really want other people to start thinking you're one of them?
The bottom line is that associating with this guy is just a bad idea. You obviously don't approve of what he's doing, and it's pretty unlikely that you're going to change him. Right now, you have the chance to walk away. Take it.
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thanks but its very hard for me to leave him because i know wat hes doing now and im worried about him and everythin but sometimes you have to let things go and this is something i think i should let go. thanks again.
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