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I have been dating this guy for over a year. I have 2 girls and we all moved in with him. We have a great relationship. He is in the Army and left for 14 months for training and as soon as school gets out me and the girls are going to move out of state to be with him. He has been nagging me to get my password for the bank acct. I told him as soon as he gives me his, I will give him mine. He blew up. He's the type to always be in control. There's alot more to the story but he said we are breaking up over a password. We love each other but..come on. Am I standing my ground and we may lose each other over something as stupid as a password?

Hey,

Let him know it's not worth it...Maybe he thinks you don't trust him or something.

Think of a way to let him know that you do.

I lost the love of my life over a mobile phone charger...Nothing's worth the loss of a loved one.


Best of luck hon.
Kay.

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(Rating: 3) He can be very controling...if you let him. I've never let him but he still try's to see what he can get by with. He wants to control or "supervise" my money, but I'm not allowed to know where his money goes. I know it's a stupid reason to break up, I am so serious when I say that that is the ONLY thing we fight about. I say we are a couple and I should know if he spends $900 on a computer to play a game on and I have to explain $56 at the grocery store. He was married for 13 years who had nothing to do with the bank acct because she didn't work. He forgets I do. I still think she as his wife should of had some access to their accts. she allowed the controll. I'm just worried that in 13 years if we will still be fighting about the same stupid thing...A PASSWORD. Can he change? I love him the way he is, except for the double standard. I would hand my password over in a min...if he gave me his.

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