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okay well, I know there are questions like this constantly. so there's this boy, he's 4 years older than me, but age doesn't matter. His name is Bob. we'll bob used to like my best friend until he got a girlfriend. he recently saw me and thought I was hot, for the next few days he was telling my friend I was really really hot. I finally started to talk to him. he says I'm gorgeous and beautiful and one of the sweetest girls he's ever met. he texts me good night, and during school. he's told me what he's done with his previous girlfriend and said that he would never push me into doing anything I wasn't comfortable with. do you think he just wants to get into my pants or does he like me ? and no we are not going out.

Well, that is kind of a hard one. You guys just started talking, and for him to be saying things like that and acting extremely close with you could be an act. Older guys do have the tendancy of using younger girls for what they want, then leaving them. Since it is too early to know, I think you should get to know him a lot more. More about his past relationships and his personality. You guys just started talking, give it time, and if he sticks around the whole time and makes an attempt to get to know you, then you know he is interested. If he seems to get impatient and say "why does it matter?" a lot, then he's most likely using you and has no interest of a relationship with you. Take precautions with him, don't get too tied up.

Good luck with him, and be careful :]

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(Rating: 5) okay thanks alot he says things like " yeah we could hang out if you'd like to and talk and stuff, get to know eachother"

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