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ok so on friday my friends and i want to get a little buzzed before going to a dance. we are each going to drink one bear. then my mom is going to drive us to the dance. is she going to be able to tell that we were drinking? (by the way we look, smell, or acting?) please don't say I am too young. and any other tips on this please share!

Hey,

I'm back here for two reasons:
1. To apologize
2: To change my advice

I want to say sorry because I know I did something very inconsiderate... The word 'drink' just created this rush in me and I don't know why I gave you that horrible advice. I'm sorry. See, the thing is, I'm under therapy. I'm addicted to alcohol because I started drinking at an early age (6 ... don't ask) and it just got worse and worse. I don't want that to happen to you. I know what craving feels like and trust me hon, that's one feeling I don't want you to feel, ever. I don't want to confuse you with this. I understand that my rating will change and you might hate me forever for doing this, but I want to do my part. So here I am. I'm sorry.

Second thing, my advice. Even if you told your mother that the 'smell' is your perfume .. hon, she's your mother. She's not stupid, she knows you. She knows what you smell like. And having your friends there will just make things worse if you got caught. I know it's too late for this advice now and god knows what you drank and how it felt. I don't want to come to this site everytime thinking that I gave you the most harmful advice ever...You might see it as a "great help" but I see it as a criminal act.

I don't want to tell you not to drink or to drink socially ... In fact, I'm lost for words. I don't know what to give you as an advice. I guess 'don't lose control' and 'just because THEY'RE doing it doesn't mean that you have to do it too' will do for now. I hope my advice didn't make you do something bad =(. I know it's over, but in the future, please don't consider what I told you last time...Forget it, erase it, delete it from your memory card.

I'm sorry again.
Kay.


Note: I also apologize to all the readers and moderators. I'm sorry.

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(Rating: 5) thanks sooooooooo much. you helped the alott!!!!

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