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I'm 15/f. I'd like to say I understand the people at my school but I can't. It seems as if all anyone cares about is getting drunk and having sex. It annoys me so much, I just don't understand why most of the girls seem like (in lack of a better word) sluts and all the guys are just pigs. My question is how do I put up with all of this when it's right in my face every day?

Thanks in advance...
-Puzzled

Hey hon,

I know it might be hard to ignore them and stuff but you can fight back, trust me. I was first introduced to porn when I was 12. I saw my first live sex scene when I was 8, so pretty much, I had a corrupted and scarred childhood and the "Stork Hotline Delivery" for "where babies came from" became a bullshit for me AGES ago! However, I didn't change at all. I didn't wear makeup like all the girls did, didn't wear short skirts and flirt with whoever male crossed my way.

I guess it's the 'thing' to do these days, you know? It's not completely peer pressure ... I'd say they've been influenced and they're sort of passing it on. I lived amongst perverts for 10 years. And I resisted. I'm sure you can do it too.

It's difficult at first, trust me on that one. Act like being normal and not into sex is the 'thing' this century. It confuses them a lot. Getting drunk and having sex is old news - it's time you 'create' the new 'fashion'.

Sorry I made this long. Hope it was useful.

Kay. =)

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(Rating: 5) Thank you for the advice! I'll try to stick it out the best I can =)
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