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Okay sorry this is so long....
ight....my name is sarah,im white and im 15...i date this boy named brandon,hes black and hes 17 and i just turned 15 in march and hes about to turn 18 in may...well we been dateing since march 24th-2007 and when we were on the phone he said babe are you ready to fuck me and i told him no because im still a virgin and we only been goin out for 2 weeks.He said i better set a date or its over.So i told him ill be ready friday.Well we just started talking and he was like babe i got somethin to tell you but i wanna say it to your face but I LOVE YOU!!so i said i love you too.WEll he always tells me well be together forever no matter what.Well all my friends tell me were rushing but i never felt this way about a guy befor in my life.I just dont no what to do because my plan was to brake up with him thursday because im not ready to fuck him yet.Hes everything i ever wanted in a guy.The only thing is he wont wait until im ready.and everytime he says i love you and he blows kisses in the phone and always calls me baby...well when ever i hear his say that stuff to me its like i cry all over again and i just dont no what to do with him...
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hes rushing you, and you really dont want that. and if all he wants is the sex then maybe you have to think if he really wants you. he probably does, but rushing isnt always good,plus its ONLY BEEN two weeks, and hes 18! 15 may not be young to some people, but my brother is 15 and its really young to have sex, and maybe if you do choose to do it that young it ould be with someone younger. Plus a lot of people think guys are the guys of there dreams, but hes probably not and your young[[so am i]], i know what your going through[[in a way]] and its really hard to actually take action, but loosing your virginity too your boyfriend of 2 weeks, who is ALSO 18 isnt something to risk. I really think you should talk to him, and if all he wasnts is to rush to sex hes NOT worth your time or tears! if worse comes to worse you might have to break up...and that will suck, but its really whats healthiest, and safest for your body, and youself, as in stress and those things. if you do break up you might cry, but then you really need to think of all the bad things that were and could have happened. hope i helped
Lauren
(Rating: 5) thanks-and im dumping him tonight