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OK, My friend well she is not really my friend but she is more like a person i talk to once in while and she is fun to talk to. Well she got raped, and know one knows if she is ok. I jus do not know what to say or think, every time i think about it i start to cry .. I can't call her or anything b/c i do not know her number. I just pray she is alright it's been like 4 days or so. Please someone if you ever knew a friend that this happened to tell what i am supposed to say her or how i know if she is ok.

I had a good friend that happened to, but she went to me first, the thing I did best was listening, and ask if she did get help any. If she got raped, she should have went to the police and not washed off so she'd have actual proof that this guy raped her. If she hadn't got help, she may have been afraid to tell people because of what they may think or that the guy threatened her. You can advise her to talk to a counselor,& you can help just by talking to her, and she may be scared to talk about it,so give her time, you're already helping her by being there for her and being her friend, other than that there is nothing else much you can do about it, prayers are nice though. Hope this helps.

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(Rating: 5) thanks a ton

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