phatdopelove's advice column

There's this girl at school who has basically no life. I was writing in my best friend's agenda because she writes in mine. Just stuff like "Hey hoe, I love you!" or something like that. Or just telling stories that make no sense or whatever. Because that's just how me and my best friend are. We're goofy & we joke around a ton.

But anyways, this girl my best friend is friend's with went through my bff's agenda & made comments about like everything I wrote. She called me queer or ugly. My nickname is Christina Curbstomp, so that's basically what I go by. And she was all "curbstomp? that's the gayest thing I've ever heard." Now, this girl isn't too bright, so I'm pretty sure she doesn't even know what the hell it means.

I'm not mad that she's running her mouth. I could honestly care less, I'll let her talk all she wants, but the least she could do is say it to my face. But, I'm not sure she's aware I know. Now, I'd kick her ass, or at least catch her with a good right hook, but I'm not jeopardizing my education over some girl. And I'm definitely not getting arrested. In my town, 16 is the age they can arrest you at. I mean, they can arrest you younger than that, but at younger ages, they can't really do much like they can when you're 16. So, I'm not getting arrested over some girl who knows nothing about me.

I've never even talked to this girl, and I know nothing about her, she knows nothing about me. So, I wanna know what the hell her deal is. Because her shit is kinda making me mad. "Talk shit all you want, but say it to my face." I live by that. And honestly, I'm not anyone to fuck with, so basically..what should I do? I'm not fighting her unless it's absolutely necessary & it's not because even if I do kick her ass, it won't stop her from running her mouth. I could kick her ass forever, but she'd still talk her shit up. So..what am I to do?

I'm the kind of girl that lives by those words too, but MOST girls sadly don't wanna face up to it.They talk shit, and when you come up to them about it, they completley are scared shitless and deny it. I say I hate girls too but I am a girl so.. I'm a fighter, but I'm not gonna be the one to tell you to go ahead and beat her ass.
But I went up to a girl, saying if she talking shit she needs to say it to my face, then she goes on denying it, saying that she doesn't fight and blah, blah,blah.. So best at it, ignore her, it'll die down, don't talk about her to anyone else or how it bothers you.. if you do it causes further conflict between you and her and she'll keep talkin her shit. I mean she doesn't know you, but apparently to her she THINKS she knows you because she's friends with your friend. So she has no right to talk shit like that, don't talk shit about her, then later, she'll see to it that she is the one who is acting so stupid, not you, so she'll drop. Your more intelligent than that. She's not worth the fight for esp. if she doesn't know you. If she did then that would be diff. but hey, that's my best advice OR lets say you do wanna fight anyway, don't do it in school, you'll get arrested for sure, do it elsewhere, but don't tell people about it cause that will draw attention, and the cops will most likely show up.
But it's best if you don't fight, you can beat her at her own game by this way. Hope this helps, and sorry so long.

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(Rating: 5) Out of everyone, you've given me the best advice. =)

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