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like i dont have a good relation ship with any guy right now because i just moved. well ever since i moved i wanted to have sex with my ex. i dont even like him that much any more. but everytime i see him that "feeling" comes back. I am very christain i just dont no why i am havin these thoughts?
any help?

Have you already have had sex? or just this question seem to have crossed your mind? It's normal to have these thoughts, & I think just about everyone has them. If you don't like him that much then maybe you shouldn't even be thinking about having sex with him. Do it with someone you love , I'm not going to preach and say "wait til marriage" kinda thing but it's worth the wait , to wait for someone you love. Don't worry about having any relationship with a guy. Just be friends, keep yourself busy in the new town, you just moved there, there is alot things that I'm sure you could do that could keep your mind off of this. There is other guys just make sure that they're worth giving that up for. Hope this helps, rosie.

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(Rating: 5) see i still love him. and like since i have moved like i cant see him. so i just tell myself i dont like him but i still love him. Because i do. and like in my mind set lately the only way to get him back is to do that. but thanks for the advice.
it really helped me

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