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Q: 17/f Ok so there was this dude and he was practically perfect in every single way, we were kinda dating for a little over a month, we werent ever official but still. Anyway one day hes like 'err Im too busy to make a commitment, keep in touch?' and obviously i was a bit gutted but it was ok really. However, its now a month later and i still think about him all the time and really wish we were together. How can I get over him?

if he doesn't have time for you then you shouldn't be expected to make time for him as he told you to when he asked you to keep in touch. the best way to get over him is to look for other guys, one to date. don't use him to get over this other guy but maybe you'll find that you will like him better. the other guy will probably get jealous and feel guilty for what he did to you but don't forget the other guy if this happens, it will only show the boy you cared about the first time that he can have you whenever he wants you so all in all you won't be a challenge to him which makes you seem less valuable. don't let guys walk all over you girl. :) hope i could help!

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