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Hey..my boyfriend and i are pretty serious. we have a 13 month history..took a couple month break but we are good now. we are both 18. just today we saw a WWE wrestling show and of course the beautiful divas were prancing around in basically nothing with theit whole thongs showing. my bf was lovvvving this..took pictures, he got the S.I Swimsuit edition today, likes his porn videos,and tonight after the show asked how i would feel if he went to a strip club! i feel weird about it.he says its normal and i guess it is..i guess its ok..its not like hes cheating..any input?

I have a history of friends leaving me inboxes like this which end up being attempts to make me look stupid, but I'll assume you actually want advice on this matter and I'll give you a real answer. If he's looking at the girls in WWE, that's no big deal. All guys look at other women, and in fact most girls do the same. It's not like he's saying there's something wrong with you, he's just admiring the "divas". As for the S.I. swimsuit edition, I don't think you have anything to worry about. I haven't met a single guy that doesn't like looking at that thing. Hell, I think it's the best damn magazine issue I've seen in a year. Once again though, it's just your boyfriend admiring the amazing women in the photos, so you have nothing to worry about. The porn is normal as well. All guys, whether they're single, or in a relationship do that. If he's meeting people online that's a problem. If he's just looking at porn, you don't have to worry. Guys have a much higher sex drive than their girlfriend more often than not, and he's just *cough* getting things out of his system *cough*. The strip club thing is different though. Guys should do that if they're single, not if they're in a relationship. The one exception I would make is if it's a bachelor party. Tell him you don't care about the other things but he can't go to a strip club. If this was a real question, I hope that helped. If not, stop leaving me these damn inboxes Matt.

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(Rating: 5) it was a real question..and thanks for your help :)

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