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Hey kids! My name is Amanda, but call me Manders. I'm a psychology/neuroscience/biology student. Throw me questions and I'll throw you an answer. :)

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lately i've been thinking about killing myself.ive been crying myself to sleep alot lately and last night i even went in my room and locked the door and started looking for scissors to cut myself with.its a good thing that there wernt any in my room,or i would have cut my wrists and killed myself.it just seems like no1 cares about me anymore and like everything bad that happens is my fault. and my brothers and friends are not helping right now, the reason i went in my room last night was because my brother changed the time on the oven,i was cooking a pizza at 400degrees and he changed it to 450 degrees. i've been getting mad like that , over stupid litl things for like a monthh now, and if it doesn;t stop im afraid im gonna get so mad and sad that im actually gonna kill myself,and since im a christian,i know its wrong but i just cannt help it. i really want to become happy again, and stop thinking about killing myself.how can i do it?

I once heard a saying about suicide that described it as a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Nothing lasts forever, even the bad times. If you commit suicide, you miss the opportunity to learn from your experiences and perhaps help people who go through the same problem you did in the future. Problems are placed upon us for our own personal growth and to help guide others.

You say that it seems like no one cares about you anymore, which is untrue. I'm sure that your friends and brothers care, and I know that I care. So, are you alone? No. Remember and believe that.

Your life is worth living. If God put you here, you're here for a purpose; a reason. You aren't worthless. You have the power to make a difference and to get through this.

You might need to see a psychologist or psychiatrist, because you just described some of the symptoms of depression. Talk to your parents or guardian about it.

Don't commit suicide, please. You have so many more things in life to experience; Don't end it now.

I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much,that really helped me
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