Member Since: April 18, 2005
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Last Update: April 24, 2005
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Hello,
I live in Texas. I have a 16 yo son who is totally out of control. He has been to boot camp but that didn't help. He is making our family miserable and nothing we do (counseling, etc.) seems to help. We cannot find any help in our town, we are told to deal with him because he is our problem. Does anyone have experience with this?
Thank you so much! (link)
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well as another 16 year old girl, i think he needs to find something to do, has he tried sports? my older brother (now 24) went through this also and i seriously think sports would help. if he enjoyed the sports, he would probobly respect the coaches, and then the coaches could set guidelines with you to help him work better in school, and at home...so sports is what i say. their a responsibility and will keep him out of trouble.
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Ok this might sound bad, but I want everyone to think about it. I want to become anorexic, and it's not because I want to be skinny. I'm already pretty thin. The problem is my cheeks(yes face cheeks). They are chubby and not cute at all. I think not eating would make them thinner right? I'm not going to make it a big thing and not eat until I die. Once they get thin ill eat regularly again. Theres no other ways to lose weight in your cheeks right? I mean I know it sounds really dumb to do that but I'm kind of desperate here. Is it that bad? Do you think I can get really sick? Will it work if I become anorexic? (link)
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i have this friend who got really really sick and lost a lot of weight and then hd to gain it all back. her cheeks got really chubby and she tried not eating which mad it worse. not eating causes your body to begin to eat itself. making it larger in some parts...so do you want chubby cheeks...or lumpy ones?
im sure there is also a good plastic surgeon out there somewhere also :-D
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okay im in track and im not the best runner and the only reason i joined is to get in shape for the summer well anyways my friends think they are getting shin splints and i might be getting them too how can you help this or make them go away and it is really tough on your shins cuz we do hurdles even though it is in middle school level but thanks. (link)
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im in track too but i dont run hurdles. im a sprinter and a shotputter. but i do know that there is only one person on my track team that has gottin shin splints is this girl that runs the mile and other long distances. shin splints the only thing you can do is let them sit and rest. make sure to soak your legs in warm water...and try to avoid standing and walking and especially running until your legs feel better..
hope i helped!
xoxo
ginny
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I'm not sure where to turn. I feel like I have run out of options and I just can't cope.
I've seen a pyschiatrist, physchologist, hypnotherapist and counseller- none helped. I recently went to my head of year when things were really too much- to the extent when it was either help or die- and she, although she said she wouldn't since she saw it wouldnt help, has just asked a counseller to speak to me. I need real help. I know it can help to talk through fears and everything but it hasn't helped me in the past and I cannot put myself through the pain of living for the date where I saw a therapist and begging them to help me. It was hell and it never really helped anything.
I need SOMETHING more now. Things are really bad at the moment. It's hard to explain but basically I have complete phobias of lots of things (certain films, accents, places, anything) that I can relate to a certain person who hurt me. I don't want to go into this since it's not overly relevent to this question.
I just want to know if there is ANYTHING else out there. I really don't know what to do. I want to die. I feel like everything is helpless and no one can help me. I'm not allowed medication as the pyschiatrist felt I was too dependant on things. I don't know where else to turn. My parents don't either.
The reason I went to my head of year was for this reason- I am totally stuck. I can't handle it. I feel like I am falling and no one can stop me. I need help so badly- I just can't see anything out there.
Please reply if you can; thankyou xxxx (link)
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i have experienced the problem of seeing a pyschiatrist when my dad left my mom for a year. it broke me and i swore i would help people like myself. i wrote my feelings on paper. the happy ones i kept in a box to look back on and the sad ones i ripped up. my younger brother also felt the same way and got his anger out with sports like tennis, or takwondo, and karate. i started kick boxing...and got my first punching bag for my house. whenever i needed to relieve stress, i would just go punch that.
i have now resolved my problems...and my parents have gotten back together at last.
but the punching bag, sports, and paper helped
hope i helped
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starbucksbabi92
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