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To get this out of the way... :D I am 16/f and this might be little bit long but please bear with me here :D
So I have been going out with this guy named Ryan for little over a month (which is my surprise and to everyone else as well because I never had relationship longer than 2 weeks but thats beside the point)
When we were hitting 2nd week into our relationship, he told me he loved me. I didn't say it back because I wasnt sure and he said it was okay and totally understanding so that's cool and out of the way.
But now it seems like I have to chase for him to like me. (well not exactly but I have to try and go out my way to ... well... like is the only word I can think of)
I mean just the other day, he stood me up because he forgot. I know he has terrible memory and whatnot but still that's not a good enough of an excuse right? i mean I understand if I didn't remind him about it but I had reminded about our meet over 5 times.
Also he again forgot to call to discuss when we can meet again after he promised. I know i know guys forget to call but he didn't have to promise about it which would've been lot better off.
So now I am not sure what to do. This lady whom I confide in lot of things (because she's a good listener and had been through all this...she's over 30 by the way but totally cool for her age :D) well she thinks i should end it right now because there's no point into being in a relationship if I have to chase after for it.
My friends thinks im being paranoid and unappreciative.
Which makes me more confused than ever. I can not go into details about this but I have hard time processing and have things thought out or even make a choice so please help
Clearly you care about this relationship - he doesn't seem to be that interested. Let him know that it's bothering you and all that.
Don't waste too many brain cells on this. If it keeps on going, end it. If he cared (at all), he'd come back to you and all the mushy lovey stuff would happen all over again.
Good luck
Kay
(Rating: 5) thank you so much it really helped!!!