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Q: Ok this is kind of complicated. I am 13/f and all my friends have had 5+ boyfriends. I havent. I really like this one guy (lets call him James) and we flirt alot but hes also a close friend. I care for him so much. Well lately this month I have had about 4 guys ask me out. The problem is I DONT like them this way. My friends and other people are getting angry that im turning them all down but I feel as if if I go out with them im just lying to myself and not giving them what they deserve. They are all nice guys but I only like James. My friends are saying im being stupid and letting the chance to finnally have a boyfriend slip away. I have told them before that I wanted one but I want to share some sort of connection with the guy first. My friends all say its just a guy and I should just for the status but I dont know. Should I just forget about James and give these guys a chance? I have no idea...
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no. don't forget about james, forget about those guys. you dont have to make yourself do ANYTHING that you're uncertain about, and especially being pushed into by friends. chances are, those guys only like you for your looks because they've never met you, and they haven't gotten to know you. james is someone you can trust to know you and it seems like you feel "right" when you are with him. your friends are trying to help you, but theyre putting wrong ideas into your mind. your friends don't value passion much, unlike you. it was right of you to turn down the other guys. don't rush anything and always go with what feels right. hope i helped! sabrina
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Thanks alot. Those guys are my friends to though but yes I just feel soo happy and overall better around James
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hey everyone, my names sabrina (obviously)! i love playing tennis and i do kickboxing, and i play lots of video gamessss! ask me anything, i will be glad to help! sabrinaa
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 14 Member Since: January 12, 2007 Answers: 56 Last Update: January 6, 2008 Visitors: 7674
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