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alright me and my friend, dustin, have been friends forever. and like yeah we fool around.. we're kinda each others rebound.

well long story short.. tonight he came over.. and i figured he wanted something.. boy was i right.

at first he said he didnt want anything... and then night went on, we watched a movie and fooled around.. well.. then things started getting hot and heavy and he asked if i had condoms.. i said yea. well yeah i may have wanted it for a long time but it felt wrong because i was cheated on and didnt wanna get screwed over.

also i think that sex shouldnt be the only thing involved in a relationship.. it shouldnt matter. to me its the most distant thing in a relationship.. i guess what im trying to say is that i have morals.

but like did i make the right decision or was that his way of telling me he wants to be with me or something?
i need serious answers.. please and thanks =]

You did the right thing! So calm down and save sex fo someone special, ok? You'll be glad you did. I promise. Here are a couple reasons why:
~ It should be with someone you love and trust that doesn't ONLY want sex
~ It hurts your first time so you should be passionately in love, it will help distract you
~ Somebody who screws you over and gets you pregnant before you're married can ruin your life

So be glad you made the right choice! You're a smart girl and did the right thing. And I don't think that's his way of saying he wants to be with you, unfortunately. But good luck finding someone better for that kind of relationship!

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(Rating: 5) thank you!:) but thing is.. ive already had sex.. so i wasted it but thank you :)
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