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Before christmas a friend of mine said he loved me, i told him the same thing. But i didnt want to start a relationship as he lives in America and i dont want it based on just words. Hes says hes coming over to see me again soon. I told him that it cant be until June as i have alot of things on. I havent spoken to him in 2 months and i have no idea why. I've been really down because of this so i made a choice the other day to forget him and lose all contact with him because i think hes messing with my head and it seems to be working. I left him a message on yahoo to let him know that Im deleting yahoo then for the first time in 2 months he comes online. This made me think i was right.
what should i do? Do u think im being to careful?

Hmm... well I think since you're missing him so much I think it's getting to you, so you're reacting in being a little too careful & jumping to conclusions, but that's fine don't worry! I do that sometimes too. I think he's messing with you a little bit... maybe he hasn't come on yahoo for so long because he doesn't know what to say to you if you're both online at the same time. ;) And we all know how that feels
But I don't think he's necessarily TRYING to mess with your head... so try to still have contact, but don't get too attached as relationships from 3,000 miles away or further normally don't work out. If you've been wanting to talk to him then e-mail him, he has no choice but to reply to that! Lol. Just don't get too obsessed with him & don't get too bored either.
Hope I helped

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