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okay so i have a boyfriend of about 9 months now and i love him so much.. it's just sometimes he annoys me and we get into stupid little fights..i have a problem with like over thinking things, or sometimes i let things get to me that shouldn't. does anyone have any advice as to how i can just let things go and be more carefree about things? and also is this normal? like do couples get into little stupid fights? just let me know! thank youu (link)
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YES THEY DAMN WELL DO!!
i am, EXACTLY the same as you. i over think EVERYHITNG..i think too much..that it sometimes CAUSES the stupid fights.
the only way to resolve this is to talk to one another it.
(without sounding like an insaine psychologist:)do you feel you need to be constantly reassured..or you have trust issues?
this may be why.
i know i do..which isnt good.
at least youve aknowlegded this..well done :)
i feel my boyfiend of a year and a half will get back with his ex...of 6 months maximum! its 90% likely he wont...but i convince myself he will..because im stupid like that.and im neurotic (creating probs that dont exist...a result of too much thinking..again!)
however, i tell myself that if he didnt love you, he wouldnt be here for you. "so quit your whining" hehehe
now that you understand how you feel, take action...take a deep breath before speaking out loud, and calmly tell him what you feel, and how you think you over think :)
if he loves you, the least he could do is try to understand. :)
it will be hard, but you can do it :)
good luck:)
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thanks for you advice! i almost started crying at the part that said : (i tell myself that if he didnt love you, he wouldnt be here for you) because that is so true, and i guess i haven't really realized that, well i have but it hasn't hit me fully yet so thank you!
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