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Ok, I don't mean to sound all baby-ish and be like "oh u should feel bad for me" but nobody notices me. I have depression and I have done stuff in class I shouldn't do, and nobody has noticed. My friends tell me they would notice, but they never do. I want people to notice me. I'm ugly and i feel fat compared to everybody else, but my friends tell me i'm not. I don't believe them. In a way I want to become popular, and I know I want to have ppl and guys like me. Any suggestions? Without being to harsh please!

Popular? Why?...

If you're the quiet type, people might feel intimidated by you or something, since they'll think "oh, she's too cool to talk to us" or something. If you're the loud type (not a bad thing really), they might've heard enough of your voice, so much that they can't hear it anymore, know what I mean?

There's no such thing as ugly or hot or sexy or beautiful. You're you. So what if you're fat? I bet you anything you're much better than everyone else. Don't let these things put you down hon...We were all fat at one point (unless god created a Barbie doll with a heart and lungs and all).

There's one thing perfect about everyone: the fact that they're imperfect. Popularity won't do you any good. Attention? Recognition? Trust me dear, you'll live without those.

I'm 18. I still live like that and I'm lovin it.

Stay strong. No one can put you down.

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