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How do I tell my bf that I don't want to have sex with him? I don't want him to be hurt..

You don't wanna hurt him? Don't you worry about that! Just tell him you don't. And he should accept that whether he wants to or not, he's gotta be there for you and understand you.
Tell him like this:
"Umm... I'm sorry but I'm really not ready. And you don't want the possibility of a baby turning into a clinging birden to you, do you?"
It might kinda freak him out depending on how you say it, but it's worth it!

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