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Okay, so is it a little to old for a 15 year old to go out with a 21 year old? Im 15 and the guy I kinda like is 21. He doesnt smoke doesnt drink just works. He is mexican [which doesnt matter] and he is a sweetheart. He asked my mom for approvel and asked to take me out on a date. He said he will call me this weekend. I dont think he will, Im a little scared. I have told some of my friends and they said, ''You know guys like that just want some booty''. But it doesn't seem like he is that way. I dont know what to do, give it a chance or forget it?

-Confused.

I know it doesn't seem like that, but it is. All he wants is your body. I know you think I probably don't understand but, he's 21 and you're 15. So technically, whether your mom approves or not it's illegal for you two to be dating until you're 18. I strongly advise you to just be friends until you're older and ready for that kind of relationship he wants out of you because I'm not so sure it's JUST 'boyfriend & girlfriend'. But then again, he could go to jail if you two DO have sex, and that would've been statutory rape. So if you absolutely INSIST on dating, do not have sex with him... it's your decision but... I think you'd definately regret it.
~ I really hope I helped, Lauren

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(Rating: 5) Thanks, and your so right about everything and nothing is going to happen. Trust me, thank you though.
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