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if a guy and a girl have been going out for over a year and havent had sex is it really wrong?
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if i dont will he go off and sleep with someone else? do guys do that? (link)
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in a relationship, sex is an act of LOVE.
for it to take place, you should feel that you are 110% ready,that youre not pressured, and most of all...you have to KNOW you love one another.
there is no "correct time" for you to have sex...a week, 6 months, a year, 3 years, whatever, it doesnt matter how long you dont make love until, because if your boyfried really loved you, he would wait until YOU are completely ready regardless of the fact how long you have been together.
you have to KNOW he wouldnt go off and sleep with another girl.
you are not ready if you are even contemplating this.
you've been going out for over a year ...you must now if he'd do that to you or not.
if he would...you shouldnt be with him still :(
i think you should speak to him and ask for his opinion on this whole situation.
how he sees it, what it means to him. etc.
if he pressures you complains that you havent "done it" yet, he is not the one for you.
im sorry if this sounds harsh at all ..its not meant to be..i dont want you to get hurt.
i dont know if you have a boyfriend and are asking this, or if you are asking this just in general.
ill take it you have a boyfriend (and if you dont, keep it in mind until you are married becauuse then you can have all the sex you want knowing he loves you)
sex is serious and should be thought of as special..obviously :)
you shouldnt feel rushed/forced into having sex, otherwise you will not enjoy it, and it will not be an act of love :(
hope ii helped
good luck :)
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