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if a guy and a girl have been going out for over a year and havent had sex is it really wrong?

and

if i dont will he go off and sleep with someone else? do guys do that?

That is NOT wrong at all, because it depends when YOU'RE ready for sex, not when he's ready! You should both be ready, you should both be in love, and both trust each other. As for him sleeping with someone else, most likely he will get a girlfriend that will do something for him, but don't be jealous because if he does, she's the one ruining her life. Sex not only makes you feel pleasure, or hurt, but it leaves you emotionally attached to the person from what I hear so don't do it with someone you're unsure about, or don't think you're ready to do. Some guys will do that, some will use their girls for sex, while others will stay loyal.

Bottom Line: I advise you not to in this case, it will save you further drama in life.

Good Luck
~ Lauren

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