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so i'm a fifteen year old girl.
i've had sex before with my boyfriend with condoms and it's been all good.
until today, we had it with the "mint tingle" from trogen.
we went all the way
and it broke.
we didnt notice it broke until he cumed.

so my questions are
what should i do? i've cleaned my self out a lot. we got it (or most of it) before it got in, i cleaned it with water and i'm about to go shower.
and what are the chances of me getting preg?
and has this happened to some one else, what happened, and what condom did you use?

my husband and i are trying to start a family, i have read so many fertility books, and am currently turning to my doctor and priscription pills in order to be able to become a mom...

i'm 25 years old now, and i remember the start of my relationship with my husband,then only my boyfriend, i was 18, and had my first of many pregnancy scares... i can't even tell you how much money i have wasted on pregnancy tests...

recently i was watching Sex in the City, and Charlotte was telling her friends how difficult it is for her to concieve.. and she said something to the tune of: "in my twenties i was so scared of getting pregnant 'it only takes one time', now in my thirties i'd give anything to be pregnant!"... or it was something to the tune of that...

when i was 15 years old all i ever heard was how easy it was to get pregnant... almost as if the first time of having sex would get me pregnant... now that i am actually trying i have found out that it is alot more difficult and more complicated then that...

sorry, i didn't mean to go off on a tangent... all i am trying to say is, don't beleive everything you hear, yes, it can take only 1 time, but sometimes it takes a whole lot more then that... i wouldn't be worried until about a week after your missed period...

on another note, 15 is very young to become a mother... you technically aren't even old enough to get a job, or drive a car by yourself yet...

i would put the sex on hold for a while... this scare might make it easier for you to convince your boyfriend that you want to cool it on the sex...

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(Rating: 5) thank you. and yes, i'm putting it on hold for a long while
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