hey im megan. im 16. i have a wonderful boyfriend i have been dating for about 8 months. i love him to death. i love to give advice. but i need alot of advice as well. alot of subjects interest me mostly relationships, family issues, mental health, sex, so much. i have experienced alot in my life, i have lost so many friends recently but it was for the better. i play volleyball for my high school team. i really dont like my family but i have realized that when something goes wrong your family is always there for you. you really dont know what you got till its gone. i love all kinds of music and i wear any clotheing that is comfortable. i am trying to grow out of my many bad habits. and hope i'll succed in the end. i love writing poetry and i hav written many and only can pick out maybe like 5 that i really love. my main topic is death lol sounds creepy but they are really good. i am emotional and im very sensitive. i have learned to not worry about what people think of me and what i do. i am a very fun person s and a very serious person at the right times. i can not trust anyone except 2 people in my whole life. its very sad but i can deal with it. life has its ups and downs and ive been threw plenty and i have no problem going threw more because thats life.
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14 FEMALE this is long but please take time to read and answer it!!
So last dance was HOMECOMING and I didn't have a date but I went with friends and it was really really fun...it didn't bother me as much that I didn't have a date because I still had one dance to fall back on and have a date. I know it isn't everything but I really wanted a date for the dance. Sometimes I get really mad because I don't and just have to cry.
I asked a question earlier on how to be outgoing and talk to guys and make other friends. I know that's why I don't have a date, I'm way too shy.
But still doesn't anyone notice me??
I know I know...put yourself out there...BUT I DON"T KNOW HOW!
Why can't I get a date?? I have only had 1 actual boyfriend he asked me, I was in 8th grade he was in 6th... I know pethetic right? But I was really happy, but that fadded and I broke it off.
Anyone give me advice on how to make myself feel beter??
I think I'm depressed about not having a date (I feel worthless)
Not having started my period (therefore I'm flat and it is hard find things for dances that don't show that I'm flat)
I feel left out
I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S WRONG!
HELP ME GET A DATE FOR NEXT YEAR (even though it is a while away)
Help me get my self esteem up about not starting my period so therefore I'm flat (I feel like that is sometimes why guys don't like me) {im not totally flat i just feel that way i do have some cush} [i have not but either so it makes it hard to find clothes] (im really really small...people tell and ask if im annorexic...IM NOT...rumors get passed around like that all the time)
SELF ESTEEM IS ON EMPTY!!!
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Yes, I read it. You sound just like my bestfriend shes your same age and she is very prety but is somewhat a lil flat and everyone calls her annorexic.
Well guys are really shallow at 14 and are perverts but a lot of guys are from maybe about ages 13-18maybe over 18. Somewhere in the world there is a guy for you. Not all guys are shallow and mean.
You say you're shy now. Well i used to be like that when i was like 11 and younger. I grew out of it. I discovered I really like the attention and I am now very outspoken and wicked loud and very outgoing. But I grew out of my shyness.
You are probably prety as you are and guys may not see that now. Dont go out with any guy just because he likes you people will think you are easy and rumors will happen. For all you know some guy might have a crush on you as you are sitting there all sad.
Now girls that are tiny like you shouldnt have 2 much trouble finding atlest shirts because there are to good stores I know that have really nice clothes, Hollister and Pacsun. try those, hollister has nice shirts and Pacsun has really nice jeans from sizes 0-maybe like 14 im guessing.
Maybe by next year you will have grown out of your shyness. You will deffinatly grow out of it. Just talk to people. Say Hi once in a while to people. You are probably shy because you care about what others think of you. I know that becuase thats why i was always shy. Just ignore what people say it's very hard atfirst but you'll get the hang of it.
Say Hi and be friendly to people you never know you might get a guy. I know how i get guys is by flirting which is very very easy if you know what you're doing. Just start by asking them like how to do some math problem in school or say Hi once again. Your position is tough but you will eventually grow up and have a nice boyfriend that loves you the way you are. Oh and for the record be glad you dont have your period, its hurts really badly.
Hope I Helped :)
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Thanks....But how do you defend yourself if one of your friends was concerned that you were annorexic and was talkin to in a group about it (i told her she was startin a rumor that wasn't true)
Most of my friends know im not but a few thought i was b/c i ate a little slower than them which doesn't make you that...
milly203 is my screen name for this site (column)
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