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Q: i have this problem i hate letting people get to close and whatever and i really dont like many people but everytime i like somebody i always have to like the people i cant have eigther there taking or i just cant have them and it drives me insane it hurts so much to like somebody really like somebody and you just cant have them help if you can
Well, here's the thing...not letting people get too close means something that you have to pay attention to. I am the same way, if I get too close to someone I freak. But not being able to have someone that you like is really hard, but you can't dwell on that. You have to trust in yourself and others before a relationship is a good idea. I know that this seems weird, but you have to figure out why you don't like getting close to people, becuase until then, you can't have a good relationship becuase you will always be pulling away or closing up around him. I hope that I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!

really good advice thanx

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Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!

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