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I'm 14 and I met a guy last summer when we worked together. We only saw each other a couple of days but we really hit it off and have been texting each other for six months now. Finally, last week we had our first real date. It has taken awhile because our parents have felt like we weren't right for each other because of age. We went to the movies. We did kiss, but that was all I was willing to do. He tried to do more and he was real nice about it when I said no. Everything seemed fine. I talked to him the next few days, but now it has been four days and he hasn't been in touch. I don't know what to think cause he kept saying, next time this, next time, Does this guy care or was he just wanting to get together to see what I would do? What should I do? (link)
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Most older guys that go for younger girls want to use them for sex. So he probably realized that you wont do that with him, so he'll move on to someone that will. Which is a good thing, because that shows you what kind of guy he is. If a guy sticks around and knows your not gonna do anything like that then he knows your a good girl, respects that and really likes you. I take it that you guys don't know each other too well, so he probably will move onto someone else. So it could be worse, I know girls that did take it too far and after the guy got what he wanted, he left her. Thats just in their nature and yes I know it sucks. But there are a few good ones out there and you'll find that special one someday. Your so young and you got so much life to live so don't go wasting it on worrying about this guy. And if theres one thing that Ive learned in my life is that you should live in the moment and live to have fun, not to look for love. Love will come when you least expect it and it will be some one that will keep in contact with you. Someone you can really trust.
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