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Hey, I'm Jen. I basically get on here when I'm really bored and I promise to be honest when answering your questions. :)
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Hello to all. I'm a 14/f. I'm in the 9th grade. I have a serious problem. It's ruining my life. I've been noticing lately that people are using me. And I mean EVERYONE. When they need an answer (on a test, or a quiz w/e) they ask me. I, being a pushover, give them the answer and try to help them to the best of my ability. However, when *I* need something, like help, or advice, they shun me out. They ignore me and make up some lame excuse to not have to deal with me and my questions and problems. I used to think I can rely on a group of people, but now it turns out they're just using me. On the weekends, they NEVER call. They NEVER want to talk. However, when they need something, they always come to me. (This is probably because I get straight A's...) I feel like an object...a piece of gum, that has been chewed up and spit out. I'm coming to the point where my favorite band and my own cat are my best friends. I can't rely on anyone because I know they will use me. I help them truthfully...and they end up backstabbing me. Like an example of a situation: I finished an exam online (it's worth a grade) and I got a 60. My friend asked me to give her some answers to cheat since it won't affect my 60 anyways...so I gave her 7 answers...and she got a 79. While I was upset, she started asking me if I think the teacher will pull the grade up to an 80 -_-. I then asked her for help and she rejected. I'm so confused.
You have the same problem i once had...you need to learn to say "no". When they ask you forsomething, make an excuse, and they WILL eventually get the point and leave you alone. that used to be me in 6thgrade(im now in 10th). Leave that group of "friends" and find new ones. find true friends, smart friends, friends that you will still know in 10 years. Dont befriend the "popular" girls because most of them arent smart and just pretend to be friends with you for the answers of work. They are hypocrites. Just find smart, nice, normal friends...they are the best.
(Rating: 5) I totally agree. Thanks :]