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I'm a mom of two, who has had her share of problems, and likes to help others with their own. I love helping people, and knowing that I can make a difference. I can't help with everything, but I'll always try to make people smile and just feel good about themselves. I've had more than my share of family drama and problems; what with my parents coming from two different and clashing cultures. I've also moved around a lot and had to deal with changing schools and all the trauma of making new friends and fitting in. I'm good with questions about friends, relationships (love, family..you name it), tough decisions, technology, and other weird random questions.I'm a great listener, but I make sure to understand both sides of the story as well.
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so i have a boyfriend. he loves me and tells my im amazing/gorgeous/beautiful and everything a girl loves to hear on a regular basis. we've been together over a year. he says he loves my body. the thing is, i dont love it. at all. i mean yeah i have big boobs but thats about it. im overweight (5'9" about 251 lbs, size 18 pants and 3x shirt). im completely disgusted with my body but somehow he finds me beautiful and almost has me thinking maybe its true. but how do i see myself the way he sees me? i believe that he thinks so but im just like "ugh...why?". he wants me to be self confident but its like i just cant. im ahnee on advicenators if you want a pic (its small though)
you're really lucky. you found a guy who knows that looks aren't everything. who sees the person inside, and realizes that thatn is what makes you beautiful.
i know this isnt helpful, but be happy.
you need to realize (just as your boyfriend did), that you are beautiful because of who you are inside...not because of what you look like or what size clothes you wear.
but if you really can't overcome the way you feel about yourself, then maybe do something that will boost your confidence. go exercising with your boyfriend...eat healthier...with the exercise and healthy diet you'll start losing some weight and you'll gain your confidence in yourself.
but still keep in mind that it doesn't matter what you look like on the outside, even if you lose the weight, your still the same beautiful person on the inside. :)
(Rating: 5) aww, thanks, big smile on my face haha