You have to make sure that you don't just walk up and start stuttering or mumbling/drooling all over him. So think about what you are going to say. Think of something intersting that you think would be a good topic to start with. Then watch for a good oppertunity to talk to him. Now preps are a lot harder to do this with becuase they have their little/big groups of people that think, talk, act, and move exactly the way that he does. So think of things that could be a good ice breaker...but nothing cheesy like "sure is a nice day out, huh?" or something...weather...boring/lame icebreaker... just be carefull, I'm sure you'll do great! Another thing, be nice to his friends, the only way a relationship (friendship or more) can work is if you are nice with their friends. Never insult or ignore his friends. Now, good luck! I hope you do well. I hope that I helped, and remember that my imbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Ok, so he is a prep...and he's shy? Hmmm...well, I don't know. If you see him reading something, or...see him doing something that looks interesting. It is near impossible for you to talk to him and it not seem like you haven't before...just talk to him...it will get easier. But don't show that you're nervous, and it will make it easier for him to talk back...but maybe don't approach him when he might be really surprised. Talk about something that was over the school anouncments or something tf you might have heard that was interesting. Something on the news...but that might be boring...I don't know...I'm not quite sure what to do with a shy prep...grrr...well...that's about the best I can do...hope it helped!

Heyy...thanks alot....do u have any ideas of what i should say though? Like today i caught him looking at me ALOT...LOL....and i really want to get to know him...but yeah he is a prep and i hang out with a different crown but we still hang out in the same area..i dont want to look dumb of course but my question is do you suggest any topics i should start off with? Oh yeah background info: Hes been in my school for 2 years now but i NEVER talked to him before and i dont want to make it look weird that i never talked to him before and suddenly im talking to him now...also hes the shy type with new people i heared...If you can help me that woukd be great.
Thanks alot

Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!

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