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19/f. My names Casey. I'm a crazy cat lady who's obsessed about books and doesn't wear matching socks. I enjoy all kinds of tea and sometimes I believe in as many as six impossible things before breakfast.
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Okay, this is iffy. There's A and B. We're all girls in 9th grade. Last year, we were all good friends. But A started to be a scene and a total *beep* and B was just..uhg. So this year I'm pulling away from them.
There was this whole little drama abuot A "cutting" (which were little paper cuts) and B doing drugs. B stopped A from "cutting" but A tried drugs twice before saying she didn't like it. B is doing drugs...and I mean serious drugs. Apparently, A told B that she'd tell the counslor that B was doing drugs unless B stopped. Now B is mad because A said she was going to tell. And me, I'm stuck in the middle. Both of them come to me at random times saying "She said this and that!" and B is really snappy to people accusing them of being on A's side and A is getting "depressed" because her best friend is mad at her. And I'm still stuck in the middle for some reason. Both of them will get mad at me if I agree with the other or stay neutral, etc.
My question is how do I get ymself out? I've already told A to tell B "I'd rather lose a friendship than a friend" but I don'tt know how that went. And another thing...does B have the right to be so pissy at A? I mean, B did bring this upon herself. A is just looking out for B telling her she's making a big mistake. B brought this upon herself and she's blaming the consequences she brought upon herself on someone who's trying to help. I just want different points of view on this. Thanks
well. its a good thing that B cared about A cutting herself. and its a good thing that A cares about B doing drugs. yes, i do think that B is being a tad bit unreasonable in this situation. if i was A i would've done the same thing. but i don't think A should be cutting herself, its dangerous. and B doing drugs is even more dangerous, and if they're freshmen, they shouldn't be getting into that ALREADY.. its a good thing your' trying to pull away from them. try ur best to stay out of it. but if things come to worst, you have to tell a trusted adult about this problem. a guidance counslor maybe? they can help you with these sort of issues with your friends. if not, hopefully, they will grow up eventually.
(Rating: 5) ah, school drama. joys right? A never cutted basically. it was no more than a paper cut...so heh. and counslors at my school, they'll call my parents until i give them names...