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I'm Kaylee, I'm fourteen but many people say I act older then I really am. People say I'm high maintence, I have no clue why they would ever think that! =P I have some people in my life right now that mean a lot to me and I would do anything for them. I love to give advice so send your questions to my inbox. ♥
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Ok. Well Im 14 and I'm a girl. My boyfriend is just a few years older than me. Me and him have gotten sexual, but we haven't had sex before. I don't want to have sex, but he's older and he would do it if i did. And that kind of puts pressure on me. He isn't making me have sex or purposly putting pressure on me. He is a really nice guy and has a very nice personality and I could so see myself with him years from now and we have been together for 6 months. We have touched eachother in certain places before and like the other night we took it a step further. He touched me between my legs bare but I let him. I always get caught up in the moment and I am afraid I will get caught up in the moment and end up doing something I will regret. I won't have sex till I have no doubts I want to be ready and my mom said that if i want to have sex she will put me on the pill. So I want to wait another year or so and then i will if I'm ready, but I'm afraid he exspects I will have sex with him even though he's told me many times it's will always be my choice and when I am ready he will be to! I am scared! What should I do?
Oh sorry if it was so long, but if you can could you please give me some advice? :)
you seem like a smart girl, and i know stuff happens but if you're not ready then don't do it. if he says he will wait, and he truly means it, then wait. you want your first time to be special and you know its the right time when you are no longer nervous. you're only 14, i'm the same age as you and i'm, still a virgin and i know i want my first time to be special. even if you're on the pill, you can still get pregnant. and yes my best friend had sex on the pill with a condom and now has a baby. so i'm going to warn you don't just think "oh yes i'm on the pill now i can sex him" it doesn't work that way. when you can handle a baby, that's when you're ready for sex. 6 months may seem long, but truly it's not.
is your boyfriend a virgin? if hes not, you don't know for sure he doesn't want to get in your pants. i dont know either of you and i'm not saying he's just trying to get in your pants, but i'm just saying boys will say anything.
if its been 6 months and he still respects you, chances are, he's a good boyfriend. but still, if your not ready, than wait.
(Rating: 4) thank youu!! Yeah he's still a virgin. yeah 6 months really isn't that long he respects me very much and well im glad for that. thank you soo much
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