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Hey, I'm Jen. I basically get on here when I'm really bored and I promise to be honest when answering your questions. :)
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okay so i like this guy (w) he is goin out with my bff idk wat to do also his bff (t)LOVES me but he asked me out and i said no now he wont give upp on me? and they will both still be goin to my skool for the next like 4 years so if (w) and my bff breakup wat do i do if (t) still likes me how can this all work help..
wow now thats drama!!! well lets start off with t. Set him up straight and tell him that you do not like him and never will. limit your conversations with him and he will eventually get the message and leave you alone. now for the dramatic part. Talk to your best friend. If she is truly your bff she will understand and help you as much as she can. But please do not flirt with the guy you like. That will ruin your friendship with your bff forever. She will think that you care more about being with him than being friends with her. Try to move on, and respect your bff's relationship. If you are truly her friend you will not jepordize her relationship with her bf. After all, if you were dating him, you wouldnt like it if your bff tried to steal him from you. So try to get over him, because guys come and go but true friends are forever. I wish u the best of luck in this hard situation. Remember think: who do you care more about: your bff or her bf? Tell me how it went!!!
Edit: If she is not that good of a friend and you do not need her in your life, then go ahead and try to win him. After all, if he is a better friend, and you like him more, there is no reason that you should feel bad for wanting him. All is fair in love and war!!! By the way, if she is mean and steal from you, you have no reason to be bff with her. The bad overcomes the good. You deserve a better bff!!!!
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(Rating: 5) thanx thts helpful but only her bf i introduced them they dont talk and hes more of a better friend to me than she is she is so mean to me sometimes and she steals from me but sometimes shes sweet you no ?? and t is cute i like him a lil but not like tht ill tell him