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My names Helen. Im 17 years old. I go to Blue Hills Regional and I major in Graphic Communications. I love giving advice, and I am a good listener. I like to help people and find answers to peoples problems. I joined this website because I know that it's hard to figure out all your problems on your own and you need an unbiased opinion to help. Feel free to ask me anything.
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Last semester for me wasn't really well for me. I was without the person that I truly cared for and obviously missed. I know he has a g/f and I understand that and i KNOW he has a j.o.b. But, when i asked him about it some months ago, he said he was just being a guy b/c that's what guys do.And yeah, I called him my x,x b/f's b_____, but we've talked since then and we seem fine. But I don't get it, you know. How can you be friends with someone for nine months and tell them that they're your friend and that you love them, and totally ignore them for the next 3 months? How, why, and how do I deal with this? I'm ready to let go, and believe me I will for my sanity, but I don't want to. Why is he doing this?
Also, the same guy hooked me up with his friend? Why? Anyway, we went out for 5 months.And he ended up cheating on me with his x g/f. And I feel so screwed up now. I mean, I find myself thinking about him daily and this was like 5 months ago. I don't feel really passionately about him but for some reason I can't get rid of him in my mind and it bothers me so much. My x,x, b/f's friend (the one I'm having problems with) tells me that my x,x b/f wants me back. But he hasn't asked me b/c I look too mean. I don't know what I would do if he asked me out again.
I'm so lonely and desperate. My social life hasn't been that great and my life at home sucked so much. But I was fine as long as I had...as long as I had them. And,now they're gone and I feel so screwed when I usually am strong enough to deal w/ stuff like this. So, why does it hurt so much and how do I let go? (link)
ok well first off .. once a cheater always a cheater. move on dont even deal with his s**t. hes not worth it if hes putting you through hell. if your lifes not that great dont let him add extra stress


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