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okay, i am dead in the middle of the classic issue of being in love with your best friend.

lets call him Joe.

joe and i got really close really fast. my friends say "we just click". and i can see it too. when were together we're inseparable and when were apart we talk all the time. he tells me a lot of things he doesnt tell his other friends, even the ones who have been there forever.

but just recently, joe has become more "attractive", much more attractive..and now girls are alll over him..and guys, too. And ive liked him since the first time we hung out..before his grand transformation. and im afraid hes going to end up with someone who only talks to him NOW beacuse of his looks.

i dont know what to do.

i dont want to tell him because im terrified of rejection and i would MUCH rather have him as my best friend than not at all.

but id also like to know, beacuse sometimes it FEELS and LOOKS like he may like me, but other times..it doesnt.

and my feelings get stronger everytime we talk.

any ideas?
thanks a lot :]

15/f

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!Tell him how you feel. Wouldnt you hate to go on with your life wondering if you two could be a couple? Besides it sounds like you both have a great relationship that could withstand more than a simple crush - but perhaps your feelings go deeper than that. And if they do, then I seriously recommend to confront them before it becomes too late and you loose him. I mean I'm sure you'll still have him as a friend - but not as the 'more' that you want 'Joe' to be.

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