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Hello, all- I'm Becky. I'm 16 years old but wise far beyond my years, so hopefully you can expect some good advice from me. I'm not here to spit out cutesy answers to every single question- I won't be a bitch, but I'll be sure to tell it like it is. Just accept it, and consider less-than-sweet answers as tough love. :]

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okay well my friend is 12 andshe just start4ed going out with this kid whos 16 he turns 17 in junee... is there something wrong with that?? or is that allright?

I think that this relationship is wrong. People say things like "Age is only a number" or "When you are 50 and he's 55, you won't even notice it!" Still, when she is only 12, and her boyfriend is almost 17, it's not right because the 17 year old has a lot more experience than her. He's been through probably half or more of high school, and she's only in 6th or 7th grade. He can drive (at least a learners permit) and she can't and won't be able to for a long time. He's been in more relationships than her. And also, the biggest one is that he is much more mature, physically and...how would you say this?..."hormon-ally". Yes, I know that isn't a word =] but he is probably going to want to do things like sex that she isn't ready for. So that relationship isn't such a good idea. Try talking to your friend about all the stuff I said. Hope I helped =]

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(Rating: 4) thanks for the info..but the kid shes dating hasnt had more girlfriends than shes had boyfriends.
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