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I'm a mom of two, who has had her share of problems, and likes to help others with their own. I love helping people, and knowing that I can make a difference. I can't help with everything, but I'll always try to make people smile and just feel good about themselves. I've had more than my share of family drama and problems; what with my parents coming from two different and clashing cultures. I've also moved around a lot and had to deal with changing schools and all the trauma of making new friends and fitting in. I'm good with questions about friends, relationships (love, family..you name it), tough decisions, technology, and other weird random questions.
I'm a great listener, but I make sure to understand both sides of the story as well.

advice

me and this guy are good friends...i tell him things that i only tell my best friend,and he tells me stuff that his best friend dosent know...but now he wants to go out with me...i think i like him...but i'm not sure...and i would feel bad turning him down cause he broke up with his girlfriend to ask me out...so,what should i do?

You obviously trust the guy, and feel comfortable around him. Those are two great things to base a relationship on. And, also love doesn't always have to be at first sight..which I feel is what your basing your feelings for him on. correct me if I'm wrong, but I get the feeling that because you don't feel that "butterfly in the stomach-fireworks in the air-melting heart" feeling you think a relationship wouldn't work. that feeling goes away...and what your left with is either a really great person whose company you enjoy or some idiot you can't stand. haha

I'm not saying yes have a relationship with him...altho that is what it sounds like; I'm just saying give the guy a chance. He obviously likes you a lot, and you like and trust him too (if you didn't you wouldn't be telling him your secrets).

lemmi kno how it goes.. :)

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(Rating: 5) thanks...you are soo right...he is soo great...and easy to talk to...so i might as well see how things go...and i will let you know...
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