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Most of the people on here are lovely but I think I misunderstood the purpose of this website. I thought it was a safe haven for teenagers to go to when they wanted honest answers that weren't the textbook excerps they would get from regular counselors.
I did not think that the answers I had would have to be sensored to suit the head moderators opinion of right and wrong.
Regardless of that, I will always stand by all the answers I have given. I will and have never "advertised" anything illegal or harmful but I have never closed the door on someone who was debating a potentially illegal or harmful situation.
I hope the advice I have given on this site has proven helpful to some and I hope that anyone who ventures to this website will find what they are seeking.
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I'm 16/f Australian. Can someone please help me with ways to really make my resume/CV stand out?? What should I include in it and are there any tips you can give me? I'm applying for a casual job over the holidays at a teen girls clothing and jewellery store (like Supre but smaller). Also, should I put my interests in too? If so, should I only include things that are to do with fashion etc. or just what I like doing??

Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks.

Ok I'm third key for a pretty high-end retail store and this is what I have learned from my experience:
1. Make your resume very neat and put in a bunch of stuff that is related to the job and concerns how much you would like to work for their company.
2. They probably won't read the resume.
1. Always try to hand in your resume to the manager/assistant/key because if you give it to an associate, the manager won't know what you're like. This is very important if there is a lot of competition for the job because the manager would rather hire a girl she has seen rather than a girl that a part-timer has seen.
What I mean by the second one is that, that they won't read the resume until you're sitting at the interview. When I have a girl walk in and hand me her resume, I know on the spot whether we should hire her on not. It's all in the energy. Your walk should be just short of a bounce and keep a happy (not cracked-out or fake) smile on your face all the time. Be bubbly but not ditzy. Be loud but don't be noisy. Do you understand where I'm getting here? Be one of those people that no one can help liking. Those are the people that everybody wants working for the store because those are the people who know how to sell. Always be able to make conversation and produce a precise, short and witty answer to a popular question (i.e. "tell me about yourself").
Maintain the same attitude throughout the interview too. I have so many good looking girls walk into my store and I don't call them because in their attempt to look "cool" they end up looking bored, and being "bored" doesn't sell.
Don't stress out about the resume, it isn't as important when it comes to retail. Just keep it all neat and straight-forward. We prefer one-page or double-sided resumes over two pages stapled together. If you have the confidence, I also recommend following up on your resume a week or two later if they haven't called you.
Other than that, just keep your smile on and portray a confident self.

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