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Hey everyone!My name is Brina,I've been on this site for a few years, after not being on for a while, I figured I'd start up again, having more knowledge then before! I'm 19 years old and am going to be a sophomore in college this coming fall! Please feel free to ask me anything!


I'VE BEEN VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL SO MY APOLOGIES IF I DON'T GET TO YOUR QUESTIONS RIGHT AWAY!

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OK, I feel kinda stupid about asking this because its just so SILLY but here goes...
I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, lets call him Tom, and I'm so happy when I'm with him! The only problem is his ex. He only went out with her for about 6 months, but the thing is she went out with a guy I kinda liked (lets call him Rob) after dumping Tom. Well after that I went off Rob and me and Tom hooked up and I've never been happier :D
BUT this girl always looks at me as though she's better than me - like I have her cast-offs or something. AND recently shes been giving Tom the eye :( I know Tom loves me, and he really doesn't like his ex, it just ANNOYS me that she thinks shes better than me.
So my question is this; what can I say / do to make this girl realise me and Tom are happy and in love? (I've heard her describe me as his 'rebound' loadsa times :'()
Thanx!

She's jelous. Plain and simple. Don't worry about her at all. Let her think what she wants to, as long as you know that you and Tom are great together, thats all that matters! But, the next time she does something lame, just tell her to stop being immature about it and grow up. If she responds, just walk away. Hope I helped! Good luck with tom.


-Brina

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(Rating: 5) Thanx, I think I was just being paranoid - I mean, he's the best thing that ever happened to me and if she split us up, I'd be SO upset lol
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