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Hey kids! My name is Amanda, but call me Manders. I'm a psychology/neuroscience/biology student. Throw me questions and I'll throw you an answer. :)

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So I like this kid.
He has a girlfriend now, but we used to have a thing during the summer.
We are friends and all but like in front of his friends he's mean to me.. etc.
But I noticed that on days that i look pretty , he is less mean to me and tries to be around more
and he'll talk to me on online that day and try and find reasons to talk to me [online].
I dont mind this because i love talking to him but why is this?

ps. one time he even sat with me on the bus, and that was a day where i probably looked the best.

pss, im not trying to sound stuckup , im not very pretty lol.

This guy isn't worth your time at all, no matter how much you love talking to him, or how nice he may seem. A real friend, or a great guy, will like you for who you are, good or bad, pretty or not. Be honest: When you think about how mean he is, do you REALLY think that he's such a great guy? Probably not.
But, sometimes, when a girl likes a guy who treats her badly (or vice versa), she can be blind to all of his bad traits, or doesn't want to believe that he has a bad side, or that he isn't as nice as he seems.

I think that you should stop talking to this guy. You'll find someone who is worth your time and affection, I promise. Just give it time.

I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders

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(Rating: 5) thank you lots!
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