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I'll start off by saying my names Sam. I live in southern New Hampshire, it's not that bad, haha. Im 15 years old & im going to be a sophomore in the fall. That's a picture of me and my amazing boyfriend Jesse. He's showed me true love like i never thought I could imagine!



I'll answer any type of question. I've never done anything like this before, but I think it would be good for me to give it a shot. If you need opinions about anything, I'll help you out but don't get offended if I may offend you or anything. Understand that I'm just being honest. I'm easy to talk to and I love talking to people so if you talk to me, please don't annoy me. I love helping people out so leave anything in my inbox. :]



www.myspace.com/stfu_mel



Well, in all honestly I would say that I think I'm a nice girl. :] Im a pretty genuwine person-im not about being fake. I know who I am and no one can tell me different. I hate stupid girls. You know, the ones that are all like omg omg omg.. Yeah shut up. I can also be judgemental, so if I think something bad of you, prove me wrong. I love origional people. I don't like when everyone dresses the same. I hate drama & the people that come with it. I'm all about simplicity. If your the type of person who's all about complicating things, & making more out of the situation, I wont like you. Sometimes I can be really open with people, other times I just keep to myself. There's times when I can be too honest & I don't think before I speak. The truth is I dont care who you are. If I have something to say I'll let you know. I'm not very meterialistic. I wear whatever I feel like it and I love it. I can be immature, a lot & I don't mind that about myself. To me lifes all about being spontanious & crazy, & just doing whatever to have a good time. I like having a lot of different friends. I think cliques are really dumb. I have too much in common with people, yet I'm still different. I have a strong believe in respect. I respect myself as well as everyone else. I don't lie unless i truely think it's best. I keep my promises & secrets, no matter what.



I don't have a "label". People will judge other people, I'll admit that I do. Call me a bitch, whore, ugly-whatever you like, it won't bother me. Don't act like you know me & be all buddy-buddy with me because you want something from me. I have a lot of confidence in myself so don't bother with trying to lower my self-esteem. Im not shy, nor scared to say what's on my mind. With that being said, I love meeting new people and making new friends.



I get inspiration from music. My mood can totally change just from the song I'm listening to. Odd, I know. I like lyrical songs with deep meaning, but I also like songs that come easy to me.



I actually have expieriance with death. My dad died when i was 11, due to lung cancer. I'm still dealing with grief, but it's actually really not a touchy subject for me. Go ahead & ask me anything. Im all ears!

advice

ok so i got my self in a siruation where...i just cheated on my boyfriend...and before that night i was a virgin and now im not. and like. i dont know what i shoudl do. I didnt really want to have sex with the guy...but i was in a situation where i had to be sorta quite and i was saying no...but i dont think he heard me or maybe he just didnt care. but like. he didnt use protection and im not on birth control. and im pretty sure he pulled out before...but like. i just dont know what to do and im freaking out.

solution; dont have sex.
as for your boyfriend, tell him.

samx

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(Rating: 1) yeah thanks a ton. i realize.i said i didnt fucking feel like getting raped.

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