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I'm a mom of two, who has had her share of problems, and likes to help others with their own. I love helping people, and knowing that I can make a difference. I can't help with everything, but I'll always try to make people smile and just feel good about themselves. I've had more than my share of family drama and problems; what with my parents coming from two different and clashing cultures. I've also moved around a lot and had to deal with changing schools and all the trauma of making new friends and fitting in. I'm good with questions about friends, relationships (love, family..you name it), tough decisions, technology, and other weird random questions.
I'm a great listener, but I make sure to understand both sides of the story as well.

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I have fallen for this man that i have known And crushed on for over a year. We worked together(he quit yesterday). I guess you can say he pretty much lead me on.When we worked together He would flirt constantly with me, throw little things at me, when i went on lunch break he would call the store on his cell phone and call me to the front of the store just to talk to me(i didnt realize it was him calling until i got up there) And i would spend the entire lunch break talking with him. He actually listened to every word i said and acted like he cared. Now that is why i have fallen for him.

Problem is hes 27 and im 17. He has a girlfriend that pretty much hates me(im guessing). I saw his girlfriend today and she gave me a reallly evil look. She doesnt know me outside of work.

Im really confused. I hate the fact that he quit because i absolutely love working with this guy. Not only because i get to see him but because hes the only person i work well with.

thank you. sorry its so long.

i know you said dont tell you to back away, but would you honestly want to be that girl? imagine if u were her...

Age on the other hand doesn't matter at all, as long as both ppl are mature enough.

but as for him...he doesn't seem like a very nice person. I say this because he flirted with you, and led you on when he already had a girlfriend. no decent guy would do that...

just try and forget about him (i kno how hard that it trust me), and someone a million times better will come along.

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