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Okay, I'm 13/f
My names Jennifer but my friends call me Safire. I love animals, people, sports, and everybody is my friend, is nice to me, and respects me, including my cousin. When I first started scool I was all hyped up about being in 7th grade yippy you know I still am too I love it. But On the first day of school I walked by my cousin Billy who's in the 11th grade, I said hi and he just ignored me. Hes NEVER ignored me before, even in front of his friends. Well his friends said hi how are you, the usual, and he didn't even LOOK at me. I Asked his mom about in and she said he might be mad at me, And I was trying to figure it out and My friends and I came up with this: Until lately I was jealous of my brother, mean to him banning him from my room and everything like that, because he's always getting more attention than me because he's 4. I asked Billy's best friend and Sam(his name) said Billy didn't ever talk about me like he used to. Sam also said that whenever they were talking about me Billy changed the subject. And the other day I went up to ask him about it and Billy pushed me out of the way. Luis and Diamante( my best friends in the whole world) caught me from falling and Sam and Jonathen(billy's other friend) asked Billy why he did that and he just said I got to get to class. and left. Why is he doing this to me. I love him so much I would die for him. He means everything to me. He's my favorite person on earth, and everyone knows that... I just want to know why and how to get him to stop ignoring me and pushing me around, I hate being pushed around. He knows that as much as my BFFs do. Please help me,
Safire

It seems to me something aboud Billy is bothering him a whole lot. A lot of things could be affecting his mood towards you. Like, have you done anything to upset him recently? Is he having trouble with anything in life, like stress, depression, or anxiety? Which could be primary causes of random anger. Or maybe he's afraid to be around you because of something he did or say that could later affect your friendship.

What I would do is try talking to him. I'm sure you tired before. But this time, write him letters and pass it on to him, asking what he wrong, and telling him whatever is bothering him can be a secret between you too (because it could be something private), or if you have AIM or some internet instant messaging program that you both have, try IMing him. Maybe even some e-mails. If he won't fess up to you, get some of his closest friends to get him to explain.

If he won't cooperate with you trying to help him, he probably needs some space. He is probably one of those people who shut people out when he's angry or upset. Give him some time alone. There are also times when you did what you oould but all you can do is give it time.

I hope I helped. I'm deeply sorry about what's happening, and whether or not my advice helped, I hope this situation get's better.

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(Rating: 5) thanks, I'm really glad you helped... Sam and Johnathon didn't know anything although Sam did say he might be jealous because I get more attention... But I make sure he's noticed too... I don't know. Me and my friends'll think about it thanks again,
Safire or just plain Jeni
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