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I am 48 years old (yes that's old compared to some of you).


I have worked in nursing and/or healthcare management positions for 24 years. Primarily OB, Neonatal, Mental Health, Occupational Health and Geriatrics. In Jan 2008 I started my own business to board horses and do equine/human education. I am also a certified dog trainer.


I've been around the block so to speak and seem to be always helping others. I've been told that the reason people seek me out for advice is that I am approachable and caring. But on the same token even though I consider the person's feelings. I tell it like I see it. I've dealt with people in trouble with the law, dysfunctional families such as those with abuse & marriage problems. Not to mention problems with employees and employers.


I don't ever claim to know it all, and always keep an open mind.

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ok...well there's this guy right...he is soooo nice 2 me! We even wen't out 4 like a month.
But my best friend started talking 2 me saying stuff like"oh you and bryan don't even make a good couple...not that i like him or anything but he`z just 2 ugly 4 you and it's not that i like him" and stuff like that.So then like 2 weeks ago we broke up.He still likes me and want's to give it another try but i don't know if i want 2=/
It's like hes a great guy and i love him but it dosen't feel like love love more like friendship love or something...i don't wanna hurt him and i know my "best friend" likes him because she would always be jelous when i talked about him.Bryan keeps asking me y we broke up but i dont know what to tell him i mean i can't just say oh because my friend likes you....but then i think maybe they can love each other......altough it kindah makes me a lil well let me say ALOT jelous lol.What do i do???

Why would you be jealous if you only love him as a friend? Your best bet is to allow them to be together and be happy...because that's what we should want for friends. Tell Bryan you can't love him like you should because you think of him like a friend. He apparently is not the right person for you if you broke up with him. Give it some time and you will find the right guy that will be all yours..and yours only, because your friend will be occupied with Bryan.

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(Rating: 5) well yeah i guess thx=]but she dont even wanna go with him she just dosent want me 2 b with him but wutever its koo
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